Author: oscarlikes2write

Short version for those with short attention span (i'm one of these!): Christian/Husband of 1 wife over 30 years/Father/average guy with big God & dreams/Cancer survivor/Many Goals yet to achieve- Writer/Mentor/Leading home fellowship in SoCal Long Version for you patient ones: Hello, my name is Oscar Roca and I welcome you to my new blog. I hope that when you are here reading my posts, you will find a sense of enjoyment and also of truth… but before all that, I would like to take the time to tell you a few things about myself: 1. I am an average Christian guy whose faith is growing every day and who serves a mighty God. 2. I am a husband of 1 wife who has put up with me over 30 years (She serves a huge God who has given her much patience)! 3. A father of 2 lovely young ladies who surprise me every once in a while with their decisions on faith. I have also added a son to our family. He is a good husband to my oldest daughter and I could not be happier with her choice. 4. I am a cancer survivor going on 4 years and hence, this blog (I’ll get into detail even more a few numbers down). 5. I am serving God with a home fellowship and continue in my studies in Biblical Theology. 6. I am not wasting time and I don’t worry about the small things anymore. After the cancer, I realized that life is very precious and that what we do here on earth will have an impact on our kids and their kids. 7. I am writing 3 books, One which is done and getting the final editing; two books that are in their early stages, and a hundred ideas of what the next few books will be on! One day, I had a Selah moment. Selah moments are those moments that just make you stop everything you’re doing and really think about whatever it is you’re thinking or reading or looking at. The word Selah is used a few times in the Book of Psalms wherever the writer wanted to get something across that would have you stop reading the Psalm and just chew on or meditate or think of the sentences or verses you were reading. It was meant to have you stop everything and concentrate on those life lessons the Psalmist was trying to get across. My Selah moment was just after my cancer operation. I knew I needed to reevaluate a bunch of things that were not really important to me. Things that I was doing that needed to be deleted from my life. I also thought of other things that needed to get priority in my life. Some of those I will be posting and the new ones, such as writing are the beneficiaries of that Selah moment. So please, I invite you once again to read my posts and come back to get some of those Selah please be still moments.

The Keepers of the Mysteries

I love writing these types of posts!

It exemplifies a Christian’s walk.

I love hearing from families who appreciate what their loved ones are doing for them!

Any man can be a father, but only the special ones are Dads!

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—To all men who are responsible for taking care of homes

 —With wives who call them husbands

—Where children & grandchildren are living and calling them Dad

—Those men who are taking care of children who may not be their DNA & yet have stepped up to make their place a Home for them!

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We dedicate this Post to you. Those who are the Keepers of the Mysteries of God. Those men who devote the time teaching their families the power of the Gospel of Christ.

Those men who have gone from being just fathers, to Legendary Dads in their homes!

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FAITH —HOPE —LOVE |Christian Basics

1 Corinthians 13:13

Faith—There is always a danger of getting complacent in our faith. Where people around you don’t know the incredible love of Christ and His atoning (sin cleansing) sacrifice on the cross, we will talk to them about sports, politics, events happening in the community and family, yet not let them know why we are so blessed in knowing Jesus as our personal Lord and Savior.

Hope— other people are needing the hope we have in our future. Not the kind of hope for monetary wealth or health and well being. The kind that says, “I am only passing through this beautiful life, but my hope lies in an even better place at the end of my journey — a place flowing with the real meaning of life. You see, the secret we have here is fantastic. Even with some of the bad stuff which comes our way. Even with immoral people who take advantage of what this world gives. These evil people take and take but don’t give back to the goodness of this life.
Other people, journey through this life and give away more than they get—the incredible hope that I have, the promise of one day entering into a permanent and enriching experience which I get freely.
Nor have I had to earn anything to get to this incredible place. All I have had to do is put my trust in Jesus the Christ (The Messiah or Savior of this world). I did not have to go door to door explaining anything or ride my bike to some foreign land to tell people about the Gospel. Even though sharing the Gospel is the right thing to do, we don’t have to go a thousand miles to share it.

Love— It’s been said that love conquers all. I am here to tell you that love does conquer all. Just look at the Roman Empire. The empire was never conquered by hoarders of marauders warring against it from the fringes of the empire. No, what conquered the Roman empire was love that spread within its walls. Christians were slaughtered and denied access to food and water. They were expelled from selling their things at the local market places.
As long as they rejected the local and Roman deities, Christians were bullied and tortured. Yet, these same Christians would give whatever they had to others. They would pick up infants whose lives have had been found lying in the streets because their families did not want them. Christians would live lives that emanated the love of Christ.
Look at the Vikings. They killed and plundered. They went into all of Northern Europe and took what they wanted; gold, silver, women and anything valuable. When they settled into the lands, they had conquered, something happened. These ferocious invaders started seeing what Christian love for their neighbor, churches, and their community was.
This love wasn’t perfect, but it was far better than the way of the Viking way of life. Decades later, the conquerors were conquered by this love of Christ.

Today, we are seeing all the wrong things that are happening in this world. Terrorists killing Christians with the sword, making it a point for others to fear them and letting the world know that all countries will need to ‘convert’ to their religion.
Political agendas demeaning Christian life and going against their livelihood with frivolous lawsuits and in other countries, not having Christians be able to buy food, water and the necessities of everyday life.
Just like the Roman Empire, the world is also hating Christians for standing up for babies. Christians will continue to do the things we do because Jesus told us that people would know we were his disciples by our love. It is not a fake love. Nor is it a bought love. It is a God Spirit kind of love. Only by knowing Christ can you have this supernatural love,

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We Start Off Where We Left Off |Friendships

Romans 12:15

I remember sitting with the neighborhood young men who would come to our house for bible study and hang out during the week to play video games. My wife and I would host them after work so that they would have a place where they could be safe and untempted from this world’s vices.

It was a usual day; the guys were loud and obnoxious as usual. They were having fun beating up the old guy (in my 30s at that time). I received a call from my younger brother’s wife. He had passed away. The young men knew my joyful face, but they also understood my look of concern. They automatically quieted down. No one had to tell them that I was experiencing a tragic moment. They turned off the TV and video game while gathering around me. I told them what had happened, and they all shed tears with me.

As I look back, the incident is still vivid in my mind. Because these young kids were all in their teens. We had gone through some thick and thin times with most of them. Divorced parents, drugs in the family, and so on.

Some of these young men and women were living with their grandparents because the dads were not around, and the moms were not able to handle their teen male rambunctiousness.

Yet, these young men taught me the meaning of true loyalty. They hung out and protected each other. They protected my daughters whenever I asked them to keep an eye on them. These young men were joyful with my family and me.

  • The ministry my family had, was not a ministry but a joyful fellowship
  • Where we taught these young men and women what family should be
  • How to always lean on God, and to continue on in life, no matter the circumstances
  • Most of those young men have moved on.
  • Some have kids now, with their own joys, problems, and experiences.

Then there was the men and women, our friends and brethren in Christ. They, too, have been a big part of our joys and sorrows. We have all been there for each other. Some, we see often, others, not so often. However, here is the incredible part, whenever we get together with these old friends, it’s like we had seen each other yesterday. We start where we left off, no matter the time passed.

Here is the secret to the joyful gatherings even in times of trials. We all have one thing in common. We all have committed our lives to Christ. You see, it is only in faith through our Lord and Savior Jesus the Savior, that we have the strength to be joyfully happy in the good times, and also shed tears with our loved ones and friends during life’s tragic times.

As we get older, there’s a reason why we hurt emotionally but are joyful when one of our friends passes into the next journey. We know that losing a brother or sister in Christ is only a temporary thing. We shall see them again because they have only gone ahead of us. They have finished the race and have completed their journey, reaching their destination. We rejoice in this but feel sorrow for not having them around.

One day we will rejoice and kick back with all of the people that have come through our home, our lives, and once again, we will start where we left off here on earth…

I would invite you to have this joyful assurance of knowing what your next life journey will take you. I invite you and ask that you invite your loved ones and friends on this jpurney too!

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Omaha-Utah-Sword-Gold… |D-Day June 6, 1944

Normandy landing
  • May we never forget what this generation did to save humanity from the brink of disaster

We would be speaking German or Japanese today had it not been for the Greatest Generation.

  • Some were as young as 18 others had wives and kids. Most gave without being asked. They did what had to be done for the sake of this Union.
  • Those that could not go, cried; some committed suicide because of the shame of not fighting.

Others took the news horrible but went on to help the war effort here at home for the sake of this Union.

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Our generation(s) May not be in a world war, but we are definitely in a war. A war that has to be won for the sake of this Union.

  • May we learn all the good things from this generation, and honor them by coming together in unity for the sake of the Union.
  • May we come together and not be asked but volunteer to bring back our nation from the brink of division which will lead to ruin.

Here’s to the men and women who answered the call against Fascism for the sake of this Union.

  • Now I ask you to join me and unite in prayer, supplication, support and salvation for this wonderful country full of freedom fighters for the sake of our much beloved Union….

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Congrats Grads! |Graduations 2019

Proverbs 23:17-19

As another school year fastly approaches its zenith, I want to take the time to give all graduates just a small piece of advice…

As every single academic year passes by, and I see grads joyfully making their way out of the middle, senior and college institutions, I smile and cheer them on. 

To those kids in middle school going into high school:

Don’t waste your precious high school years stressing over the little things in life. The boy or girl whom you want to date, or the other students in your future school who might pick on you, or the group of kids you’ll hang out with during this time. Trust me when I say this, everything you think is super important, is not. Start off taking a deep breath and then enjoy every minute of your high school experience. Go to the football games, hang out with your friends, study hard and start setting goals on what you may want to be when you get out of school. Don’t worry about the rest of the stuff, because 10 years from the day you graduate from high school, they will not matter. All you will remember is the fun times you had… enjoy the journey into high school…

To you high schoolers, same advise, but I will add this:

You are no longer kids. Most of you will be 18 years old or older.  Don’t waste your time doing the frat or sorority thing. I know for some of you, this is the main reason you want to be in college. Know this; it may be fun to do the frat house experience, but 10 years from the day you graduate, those parties and fun times will not matter. What will matter is that you went in with a set of goals of what you wanted to accomplish, and you graduated doing your best to reach them. What will matter is that you made life long friends who want the best for you and vice-versa. Take the time when you are stressing, do what I always told my daughters (and wife, and myself), stop everything you are doing, look around wherever it may be, close your eyes and take a mental picture of all that you saw. Remember every detail of that picture, and count your blessings. Because even those stressful periods will teach you something for the future. Embrace every situation like it’s your last and enjoy the journey into semi-independence…

For you College grads:

Whether you will continue to post-graduate work or get right into the workforce, I ask that as you are walking down the aisle and waiting to be called out for your diploma, reminisce and be thankful to whomever, it was that pushed you along the way to get to this point in your life. Whether your parents, grandparents, teachers, mentors, or all of the above. Be thankful for those who invested time in you and your well-being — those who encouraged you along the way because you did not make it this far without help. Enjoy your journey into a full-fledged membership to adulthood

Lastly, for all of you:

Don’t forget the most crucial part of your graduations. Whether you believe or not, whether you have faith or not. Whether you see Him or not. As you are all done with your graduation festivities and parties, thank God for getting you this far. He gave you life for a reason. That reason is to glorify Him in such a way that your life will mean something. That something is getting to know God personally and committing your life to do something good for Him. Not to earn your ticket to heaven but to fulfill what God wants for your life. If you don’t know God on a personal level, I urge you to get to know Him. If you already have a relationship with Him, I implore you to stop, look around, close your eyes and ask—Lord, may I take a mental picture of this moment so that I may listen to what awesome things you have in store for me next!…. Enjoy your journey.

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With A Heavy Heart, I write This |Abortion

ATTENTION: SOME OF THIS MAY NOT BE SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN UNDER 18

BUT HAS TO BE ADDRESSED.

Imagine you are next to your mom & dad. You are all hugging one another tightly. All of you see an intruder coming your way with a machete. He rushes towards all of you & starts swinging away at you.

Your mom & dad are desperately trying to defend you. The intruder ends up taking your life & is found guilty of murdering you.

  1. How would you feel as the intruder is cutting away at every part of your body?
  2. How would your parents feel?
  3. If after dying, you were able to communicate with your parents, what would you say?
  4. What if you were able to come back from the dead & talk to the deranged killer, what would you tell him or her?…

Now take that same scenario, you are clutching your mom & dad’s bodies as the intruder is coming your way with the machete. As he or she gets closer, your clutching gets tighter, except, this time, your parents are not holding on to you or defending you.

In fact, your parents start running away from you. The intruder continues to inflict the horrendous damage to your body as you are gasping & screaming for your parents to come to your rescue. You feel all alone, defenseless as your last breaths of life are departing from your body.

In your last moments, you have a thousand thoughts going through your mind. You blink & scream as the deranged person continues this heinous attack on you. You blink one last time & then darkness. Your life is no more…

  1. Now I ask you the same questions.
  2. How would you feel as the intruder is cutting away at every part of your body?
  3. How would you feel about your parents not holding on to you for dear life & running away from you as the attack on your body & soul was at its worst?
  4. If after dying, you were able to communicate with your parents, what would you say to them?
  5. What if you were able to come back from the dead & talk to the deranged killer?
  6. What would you tell him or her?…
  • Now I ask you this:
  • A baby has the same body as you, with the same skin, muscles, brain, pain tolerance & life as you & I.
  • I understand that you & the guy that you are with or were with during the conception of this innocent life, have the right to privacy. I am not disputing this. My question is this, doesn’t the baby who can feel every slash & tear of his or her little body have the same rights as you & the person who got you pregnant?

To all men and women,
Before you abort the precious baby, I pray for you to realize the actions you take before a baby’s conception are the consequences of your actions & not the innocent life that comes as a reaction.

The baby is a consequence to your actions & is innocent of any sentencing charged against him or her.
So please, don’t kill an innocent life because of your mistakes.

How to personally know God:

If you have made a decision to terminate a baby in the past, I am here to tell you that God will forgive you. If you so choose to ask His forgiveness.

I am not here to pass judgement on anyone. I am here to bring you hope and peace.

I am here to let you know that you don’t have to have that awful weight continue to keep you down.

Ask God to help & forgive you. I promise that He will & you will finally feel peace. Peace that Only He can give you.

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To All The Families of Fallen Warriors |Memorial Day 2019

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To all the families of fallen warriors,

  • The fathers, mothers, wives, & children of those who have paid the ultimate sacrifice for us.
  • We will never forget what you have sacrificed, for the good of the Union & for the gain of the world.
  • Some may spit, yell, and scream at your sons or husbands or brothers.
  • Some may say that their deaths were wasted lives.

This man and his family say this:
No one shows greater love than when one gives their life for their family, friends, and many others who do not know of their sacrifice.
We thank you & this grateful nation thanks you.
We will never forget giving you our thank you & our gratitude.

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